Is He Gay Or Just Curious?

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It can be difficult finding out if a guy is gay or curious, but it can also be a lot of fun. This is a pretty common question these days, because while gay men are obviously gay, curious men are a lot braver about letting their curiosity be knows. There are still a lot of straight, curious guys who tend to remain very reserved about their curiosity though, so how can you tell if he's gay or just curious? It's normal to be curious, but a lot of straight guys don't really know how to approach the whole thing. Experimenting with men doesn't mean he"s gay, and even having sex with other men doesn't mean he's gay. Is he super metro/effeminate, or immaculately well groomed? Still might just be curious. Even if he's really touch with men and interested in the entire topic of sexuality, that could still mean he's just curious. Asking him is always the best way to find out, and an honest approach is always the best one! Keep reading to find out more of our great tips!

First Of All - It's Normal To Be Curious

Let's be honest, there are a lot of beautiful people out there, and sometimes a straight man can meet someone of the same sex who makes him think twice about what he's into...if he hasn't already. Being curious is naturally a part of human nature. It's why so many young people experiment in college, or when they're going through their earlier years in life. It's why some people can't seem to commit, because they're not sure they want to close all of the doors just yet. It's also why you're reading this article in the first place, isn't it? Are you gay man trying to figure out straight/curious signals (if you are, cool), or are you a straight man, who might be wondering if any of this pertains to you. Whatever the case may be, it's all completely normal. Human beings are curious creatures, and when it comes to sexuality, it's a new age. The idea of experimenting isn't so taboo anymore, and chances are that you already know someone from the straight side of the fence who's given it a whirl, even if it's a distant kind of participation, they've still given it a go with another guy in the room, or have even done a little bit of back and forth hand action. So, if you're straight and you're wondering, or if you're gay and you're trying to figure out whether or not he's just straight or curious, there are a few things here that will apply to you. Nothing is set in stone here, so there are a lot of grey areas, and areas that are open to interpretation, but we'll talk about some of the signals that you should be looking for.

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Straight Guys Won't Always Know How To Approach This

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So, for gay guys, if he seems like he's curious, but you can't tell for sure, it's a really good idea to keep your approach cool, but to casually ask him. It could be something as simple as saying, 'you seem curious, are you?' Don't make any kind of jokes or a big deal about it though. That's the last thing you'll want to do. Make sure that you're leaving room to say yes or no, and that you're not applying any kind of pressure. For a straight guy, if he feels put on the spot about it, even if he is curious, he's likely to back off so that he can save face and avoid ending up in a situation that could end up making him feel embarrassed. Remember, curious isn't sure, so it could take a little bit to easy the curious straight guy out of his man cave, to see if he want's to experiment. Generally speaking, if a guy is 100% straight and not interested, he will let you know right away. If he seems hesitant, give him a bit more time.

Experimenting With Men Doesn't Mean He's Gay

When it comes to experimentation, getting it on with another guy once or twice to find out what all the fuss is about doesn't mean that a man is gay. Sexually open? Sure. Gay? Not necessarily. A lot more guys today are open to experimenting, so even if he's made out with you before, don't take it to harshly if he isn't interested in doing it again. It could very well be that he wanted to give it a try, because he was curious. Instead of seeing that as a potential negative, the best thing to do is to take it as a compliment! He wanted to try out another guy, and he tried you. That's definitely worth viewing as a huge compliment. Chances are that a guy who wants to spend time with you again will let you know. If he goes back to the team he was playing for previously though, you really shouldn't take it to heart. It's definitely true that not every guy who experiments with other guys is gay, and that's totally okay.

Having Sex With Men Doesn't Necessarily Make Him Gay

Gay or straight, a lot of men do enjoy a little back door action, so if he's had sex with a man in the past, that doesn't necessarily make him gay. Some women have full-on lesbian experiences with other women, and that doesn't make them gay either, it just means that they went for it. Some guys really do enjoy the back door sensation, and want to know what it's like to have it with someone else who's got the natural tool to make things happen in the rear department, so they have sex with men. It doesn't mean that they're gay, but they're obviously very open sexually, and they wanted to explore a whole other area of sexuality relating to something that they really enjoy in bed. Definitely nothing about that that isn't normal, and even common. For anyone who's not aware of this, there are plenty of straight guys out there who have had sex with men, or are going to, and it doesn't make them gay. The body is a very interesting thing, and some people are very open to exploring everything about that. Very normal.

Being Metro Or More On The Feminine Side Does Not Make Him Gay

This is a very common misconception, and in all honesty, most gay men can tell the difference, but that's not always the case. Some guys are naturally very effeminate and can come across as very possibly gay. Generally speaking, there are other signs that can let you know this one way or another, but that is not true in all cases. So, he bakes, he lives near the gay part of town, and he totally gets why you love Jake Gyllenhaal so much. That's cool. He gets it, but that doesn't necessarily mean that he's in total agreement with you. It can be an interesting dance at times, but society isn't forcing all straight men to behave the same way anymore, so it's entirely possible to meet men who can get where you're coming from, and are much more confident with their feminine side, than it was once upon a time. That doesn't make him gay, though.

He Takes VERY Good Care Of Himself

Oh, yeah! He's "manscaped" from head to to, his coif is perfection, his eyebrows are waxed, he definitely gets regular manicures, he must floss about 12 times a day, he's impeccably dressed, and he smells absolutely incredible. Hallmark signatures of a gay man? Once upon a time...maybe. Today? Not so much. There are a lot of straight men out there who feel comfortably enough in their straight, manly skin, to be impeccably groomed nowadays. It's not even a thing anymore. No one makes fun of it, and if they do, it's probably because they wish they new where to start to reach the same level of fab. While this could be a very good indicator that he's gay, it's definitely not a guarantee, so you'll probably need to do some more investigating, even if he does seem to be flirting with you here and there, he probably just knows that he commands most of the attention in the room from men and women, and is comfortable with that.

He's Pretty Touchy With Men - Or Maybe It's Just You!

Well this could mean something - and it could also mean nothing at all. Some people are just flirty by nature, and others are more likely to flirty with someone when they're interested. You can usually tell the difference, too. There is no firm guide book in this department, but someone who's doing more than just casually flirting with you will usually make it a bit more obvious, at least to you, because they're obviously trying to get your attention and let you know that they're interested. Still, maybe you can't tell, so flirt back and see how he reacts. If he's really curious, chances are that he's going to respond by continuing on in the same manner, and keep things going back and forth with you. If he'd doing the same thing with everyone, he might just be a tease all around. Ugh!

He's Really Interested In The Topic Of Sexuality

He's open to all the conversations about sex, and he'll have them with whoever. Male or female, and he likes all of the details. If he's someone who likes to do a lot of speculating about the orientation of others, then chances are that he's curious. If he's that into talking about what other guys are up to, or even girls, just as general conversation, then chances are that he's very sexually curious, and that he's pretty open to finding out a lot more, and probably even doing a bit of experimentation. Again, this isn't an uncommon thing anymore. Guys who are open to experimentation are not is short supply, so if a guy is very open, and likes to get ALL of the details, then at the very least, he is interested in what it is that men are doing together, and even more likely, he's very curious. He could very well be gay.

The Best Way To Find Out? Ask

Seriously when all else fails, just ask him. If your gaydar is going off to any degree, there's probably some reason for it, and so there's nothing wrong with asking. Worst case scenario? He'll say that he's not interested in guys...you know, until he's had a few apple martinis. Okay, okay, just kidding. He'll likely let you know. A firm no, is a firm no. Let it go at that. Any hesitation, and honestly, anything is possible. It really could be worth your while to approach him again once he's feeling a little bit braver. you never know how he might be feeling later on. If he doesn't seem sure, then chances are that he isn't, so don't push. Be cool, and give hie a chance to think about things. If he does decide he wants to see what's up, chances are that you'll be the one he's trying with!

An Honest Approach Is Always The Best One

The topic of sexuality can be a complicated one, but it doesn't have to be that difficult to broach. When you're wondering whether or not you have a chance with someone, provided they're not a homophobic douche bag, just ask them. The worst case scenario, they might be a little bit put off, and say no. Best case scenario, things get a lot more interesting as the conversation progresses. Be cool be yourself, and check out the steps in this article to help you figure out if he's gay or just curious!

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