San Diego Sex Clubs

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Welcome to the Hislut.xyz directory of the best San Diego sex clubs, sex parties, and gay bathhouses. There are a lot of great cities in California but if we're being honest San Diego is definitely one of our faves. This is because of the incredible sex scene that the city has! You'll see what we mean when you start reading through our directory. Speaking of, what are you waiting for? Let's get started! Read on for some information about San Diego first followed by the entire San Diego sex clubs directory! Want to find the best sex clubs in San Diego? Hislut.xyz has you covered with a directory of the top San Diego swingers clubs and sex clubs to enjoy!

History of SEX CLUB scene in San Diego

San Diego is one of the California cities that was founded by settlers who traveled from the east in search of gold, fortune, and a new and happy life. While they didn't alway find gold, settlers definitely found happiness, often in the form of a brothel or bar.

Eventually the brothels gave way to sex clubs and swingers clubs. San Diego sex clubs started getting popular in the late 70s and they've just been growing in popularity ever since, going from only one club to there now being dozens!

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Best Time To Go Out And Days To Go Out In San Diego

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Like most large US cities, the best nights to go out in San Diego tend to be Thursdays, Fridays, and Saturdays. While you can definitely still find a fun and naughty sexual experience on days like Sunday or Monday or Tuesday it definitely is a little bit quieter on these days.

Of course some of our fave sex parties occur on the "off days." It really depends on what you're looking for in a sex club experience!

BARS, CLUBS, AND OTHER SWINGER CLUBS in San Diego: Directory

Below you will find the full directory of San Diego sex clubs, swingers clubs, sex parties, and sex events. We searched high and low throughout all of San Diego to find the very best. We wouldn't recommend it unless we also loved it so you know you can trust our directory! Read on for our top picks:

San Diego Sex Clubs and Swingers Clubs

We are all about these sex clubs and swingers clubs in San Diego! Of course there are way more to choose from but we worked really hard to only list the best of the best.

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Club X San Diego

Type
Members Only Club
Space
Private Rooms and Common Areas
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
1286 University Ave Suite 563, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
Website
Any Notes
Must become a member by filling out form online; can take a few weeks to process.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
Club X San Diego is the place to be if you are looking for a casual hookup or to swing with your partner. This is one of the most popular sex clubs in San Diego and it'll only take you one visit to see why. Have some naughty fun in the large open area and let all your fellow voyeurs and exhibitionists really get a good show. Or you could take your fun to a private room. Whatever you could ever want in a sex club, you'll find it here at Club X!
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San Diego's Passion Palace

Type
Members Only Club
Space
Private Rooms and Common Areas
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
Address Available Upon Request
Website
Any Notes
Address revealed once you become a member; can pay membership fees yearly or monthly.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
Are you looking for a night of passion in San Diego? Well, look no further than San Diego's Passion Palace! It is very conveniently named because, seriously, all you are going to find here is tons and tons of passion. Members love Passion Palace because they can go for a hookup, to swing, or to simply have a fantastic night of sex in a sexy and flirty setting. We love how the rooms at Passion Palace are decorated in sumptuous velvets and silks. It makes the long nights of sweat sex feel that much more special and, you guessed it, passionate!
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Hankie Pankie Lifestyle Club

Type
Members Only Club
Space
Private Rooms and Common Areas
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
Address Available Upon Request
Website
Any Notes
Couples and singles are welcome; must be over 21; location changes regularly.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
The first thing we loved about the Hankie Pankie Lifestyle Club was the name! How could you not want to join a club with a name like that? We wish more sex clubs had such fun names! And you don't have to worry, not only is the name great, but the entire club is great too. They are all about swinging and helping couples and singles hook up with new, sexy partners. Many of the Hankie Pankie regulars develop intimate swinging relationships. Or if that's not your thing you can enjoy some casual hook-ups too! Whatever you're into, you'll be able to indulge at this club!
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Thad's Nude Swingers Club

Type
Members Only Club
Space
Private Rooms and Common Areas
Crowd
Mature Adults
Address
3517 E St San Diego, CA 92102, USA
Website
Any Notes
To become a member, sign up on the website; must be 21 or over to join; yearly membership fees apply.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
Just like the name suggests, there's one important thing to know about Thad's: it's an entirely nude swingers club. What this means is that you have to leave your clothes at the door when you arrive! It may seem a bit strange at first but, well, you'll be taking off your clothes anyway so you might as well not even bother having them on to begin with! Thad's has been providing a sexy swinging experience to members for almost two decades and they show no signs of stopping anytime soon! The crowd here tends to be a little bit older but younger members still have a great time too.
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Club San Diego

Type
Members Only Club
Space
Private Rooms and Common Areas
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
3955 Fourth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
Website
Any Notes
Couples only; no singles allowed; must be over 21 to join; some parking available.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
If you're in a partnership and looking for a swingers club that specifically caters to couples, Club San Diego is the club for you! This club wants to make sure that there are always pairs so they enforce a couples only rule. This makes it a lot more fun for swinging, though, trust us! You can swap with another couple, participate in an orgy, or just go at it with your partner while other members watch. You can seriously do it all at Club San Diego! The swingers nights here tend to fill up quickly so be sure to show up early!

San Diego Sex Parties and Events

When you think of San Diego do you think of sex parties? Well, after reading this list we hope that you do! We scoured the city of San Diego for the very best sex parties and sex events. You might as well clear your calendar now because you're going to want to hit up every single one!

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Barnett Avenue Adult Superstore

Type
Sex Parties and Events
Space
Private Rooms and Common Areas
Crowd
Mature Adults
Address
3610 Barnett Ave, San Diego, CA 92110, USA
Website
Any Notes
Must purchase tickets in advance; no walk-ups allowed; all major cards and cash accepted inside at the bar area.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
If you are from San Diego you may be familiar with the Barnett Avenue Adult Superstore as a great spot to purchase sex toys and adult videos. However, did you know that they also host super fun and raunchy sex parties and sex events? Well they do! And it makes sense for an adult store to get in the event business. After all, they already have all of the right customers and equipment. Barnett Avenue likes to host theme parties so if you like dressing up and role-play, you'll get all hot and bothered at these sex parties!
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Jolar Cinema

Type
Sex Parties
Space
Private Rooms and Common Areas
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
6321 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92115, USA
Website
Any Notes
Tickets can be purchased in advance or at the door; some parking available; all major credit cards and cash accepted.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
Jolar Cinema is another well known spot in the San Diego sex scene. If you're a local, you've maybe hit up the cinema for a naughty film. Jolar realized that it made perfect sense to start hosting sex parties. After all, they have a great space and entertainment! All of their sex parties involve watching one of their adult films. We love the extra element that seeing porn on a big screen while also going at it. Once you experience it, you'll totally understand why we love it so much!
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Hustler Hollywood

Type
Sex Parties and Events
Space
Private Rooms and Common Areas
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
929 Sixth Ave, San Diego, CA 92101, USA
Website
Any Notes
Tickets can be purchased in advance via the website; some day of tickets available at the door; must be over 21 to attend.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
Hustler Hollywood is another established adult store that decided to get in on the sex parties action. We're starting to see a common theme here in San Diego! But, honestly, it makes so much sense for these shops to also host sex parties and sex events. We love the idea of being able to shop for a new sex toy and also attend a super naughty party all in the same location. The Hustler Hollywood parties are especially known for being super raunchy and pushing the envelope by exploring guest's darkest desires and weirdest kinks
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Lady Bella BDSM Dungeon San Diego

Type
Sex Parties
Space
Private Rooms and Common Areas
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
Address Available Upon Request
Website
Any Notes
Must RSVP and purchase tickets in advance; couples and singles welcome; must be over 21 to attend.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
It was about time we got to a BDSM themed party space! San Diego doesn't have a ton of BDSM spaces but Lady Bella's BDSM Dungeon is one of the best in the area, maybe even in all of California! Lady Bella has been a dominatrix for years and decided to take her expertise in all things BDSM and torture play and start hosting realgar sex parties. They are super duper popular among locals and tourists; often they sell out immediately and have a long waitlist. So if a Lady Bella party is high on your list, plan in advance!
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The Stomping Ground San Diego

Type
Sex Events and Parties
Space
Private Rooms and Common Areas
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
Various Locations
Website
Any Notes
Must sign up for events in advance; couples and singles welcome; location changes depending on event.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
The Stomping Ground is a sex positive community in San Diego that focuses on everything from education to hosting sex events. One of their most popular events is called Leatherati. It's held once or twice a month and is all about BDSM and leather play. If those sound like your kind of kinks and fetishes then you'll definitely want to check out the next Leatherati! All are welcome at these events, no matter their age, background, or orientation! That's one of the reasons we love them so much.

San Diego Bathhouses

We always save the best for last! And San Diego definitely has some of the best gay bathhouses in the entire country. We don't know what it is about this city that makes the bathhouses so great but we aren't complaining! Read on to see our top three faves:

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Vulcan Sauna

Type
Gay Bathhouses
Space
Sauna Area, Private Rooms, Common Area
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
805 W Cedar St, San Diego, CA 92101, USA
Website
Any Notes
Open 24/7; walk ins welcome; memberships available as well.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
Vulcan Sauna is the oldest gay bathhouse in San Diego and it also happens to be one of the best! The owners of this bathhouse have been in the business for decades so they really know what they are doing. We love the discreet and relaxed atmosphere of this bathhouse. The amenities are also fantastic, with multiple sauna rooms, hot tubs and steam rooms. There are also plenty of private rooms for cruising and a large lounge area for hanging out in.
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Aqua Day Spa

Type
Gay Bathhouses
Space
Sauna Area, Private Rooms
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
4637 Convoy St, San Diego, CA 92111, USA
Website
Any Notes
Must be 21 or over to enter; men only; open 24/7; towel service available.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
If you are looking for a unique gay bathhouse experience, look no further than Aqua Day Spa. They combine some more traditional bathhouse amenities with modern touches. Think of sauna rooms lined with wood and other more old fashioned touches. But don't worry, all of the private rooms are equipped with state of the art televisions, condoms and lube, and other things you need for a good night of cruising. Aqua Day Spa has you covered!
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Club San Diego

Type
Gay Bathhouses
Space
Sauna Area, Private Rooms, Common Area
Crowd
Young Adults
Address
3955 Fourth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
Website
Any Notes
Open 24/7; parking available on site; plenty of members only perks.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
Club San Diego is a newer gay bathhouse that specifically caters to younger clientele. The space itself is very modern and sleek and feels super swanky. But for those who don't care too much about decor, don't worry! Plenty of cruising still goes on at Club San Diego. There are plenty of hot tubs, sauna rooms, and other private rooms for hooking up. There's also a rooftop patio for relaxing!

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Top San Diego Sex Clubs and Parties

Want to find the best sex clubs in San Diego? Hislut.xyz has you covered with a directory of the top San Diego swingers clubs and sex clubs to enjoy!

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